You know I have always had a few real good friends. Sometimes they are not always around but when I do see them we are right back where we were the last time. Like my best friend from highschool, Melissa. She lives here in town, but we rarley see eachother or talk. But every now and then we send a text like we have been talking forever. I like that. I like that I have friends like this.
I have some new friends too. I love them. They know who they are. Our kids are in the same class at school. I am fianlly able to be me sometimes. I love being a mom, dont get me wrong, and a wife but sometimes I need to be me. My friend ( I will call her T ) is amazing( well they both are) . She has opened her home and hot tub to her friends on Thursday nights for some munching, drinking, venting and skinny dipping. It has been a very good thing for my inner self and I look forward to it every week. T has 3 amazing children, one of them she adopted from Ethiopia and I think she might be the most gorgeous girl child ever!Her hubby is a counsler and is great with the kids. My other good friend( we will call her B) is eqally amazing. She runs a day care out of her home , her husband is working evenings and going to school to become a nurse. It is a huge change for her but she knows in the long run it is the best for her family. She has welcomed me to her home ( it might be because I bring her coffee) so we can chat and laugh at the kids.
I think friends are a womans way to be themselves and I so hope that my new freinds know how much I love them and respect them. I will always be there for them.